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123 replies and 11 pages later...and I’m ok now. (discussion closed)
I’m just going to copy/paste the last reply to a thread I originally started here on the 20SB forums titled "Best/Fastest Ways To Mend A Broken Heart – Need Help!"
You may have noticed that thread no longer exists. I decided to delete it and if you are wondering why, this should answer any questions...
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Best/Fastest Ways To Mend A Broken Heart – Need Help!
Reply by David 3 hours ago
Hey, would anyone object to me closing this thread or rather deleting it all together?
I just feel really embarrassed and kind of ashamed to have put all of this private stuff out there for the world to read. I don’t normally share what goes on in my personal relationships. And I’ve always treated what happened between the two of us with much discretion...until now apparently. So I just don’t feel it’s right of me to be talking about this, even though I brought it up on purpose. I did so because I needed advice in coping and was trying to wrap my head around what could have possibly happened. I was hoping I could find some answers to all my uncertainty and in some ways I have, but in other ways, I’m just as confused as ever.
Regardless, I think the first step for me is to put her out of sight and out of mind. By me continuing to talk about her and continuing to read other people’s thoughts on this, it keeps the relationship fresh in my mind – in a very raw state. To me, that is pretty painful. I think if I want to do anything to help myself feel better, I need to stay away from the urge to talk about her, think about her, analyze what could have gone wrong, etc.
I do want to thank everyone for the advice and kind words! That means a lot to me. Right now though, I think it’s best I keep this to myself and keep how I feel inside of me. Also, I am worried that in some way she would come across this and the last thing I want is for her to know how poorly I’m coping. I want to maintain SOME dignity! Despite the fact she has hurt me, I don’t see it necessary to hurt her back. I don’t see the point in that, the joy of revenge. I think that by blabbing and whining on the Internet about her is something she would not like...and frankly it's something I'm not proud of doing.
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Anyway, I hope everyone understands why I chose to delete that entire thread.
You may have noticed that thread no longer exists. I decided to delete it and if you are wondering why, this should answer any questions...
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Best/Fastest Ways To Mend A Broken Heart – Need Help!
Reply by David 3 hours ago
Hey, would anyone object to me closing this thread or rather deleting it all together?
I just feel really embarrassed and kind of ashamed to have put all of this private stuff out there for the world to read. I don’t normally share what goes on in my personal relationships. And I’ve always treated what happened between the two of us with much discretion...until now apparently. So I just don’t feel it’s right of me to be talking about this, even though I brought it up on purpose. I did so because I needed advice in coping and was trying to wrap my head around what could have possibly happened. I was hoping I could find some answers to all my uncertainty and in some ways I have, but in other ways, I’m just as confused as ever.
Regardless, I think the first step for me is to put her out of sight and out of mind. By me continuing to talk about her and continuing to read other people’s thoughts on this, it keeps the relationship fresh in my mind – in a very raw state. To me, that is pretty painful. I think if I want to do anything to help myself feel better, I need to stay away from the urge to talk about her, think about her, analyze what could have gone wrong, etc.
I do want to thank everyone for the advice and kind words! That means a lot to me. Right now though, I think it’s best I keep this to myself and keep how I feel inside of me. Also, I am worried that in some way she would come across this and the last thing I want is for her to know how poorly I’m coping. I want to maintain SOME dignity! Despite the fact she has hurt me, I don’t see it necessary to hurt her back. I don’t see the point in that, the joy of revenge. I think that by blabbing and whining on the Internet about her is something she would not like...and frankly it's something I'm not proud of doing.
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Anyway, I hope everyone understands why I chose to delete that entire thread.
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