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I was at a bar the other night with my fiancee and a group of people when a friend's boyfriend brought up blow jobs. He wanted to know how the women we were with felt about giving them. I was the first to respond with, "Love it" which I guess threw everyone off because apparently his girlfriend hated doing it. And it wasn't just her. Every single girl at the table hated giving blow jobs.
Now I've done it before with other people and HATED it. It was absolutely miserable. But with my fiancee, I actually really like doing it. It turns me on. So I was wondering how you guys feel about it.
Women: Do you like giving BJs? Does it turn you on at all or do you just do it to have the favor returned?
Men: Do you think you give more than you receive? What makes a bad blow job? And how do you convince a girl to give you one without doing that really awkward pushing-her-head-down-toward-your-crotch thing. (Which, by the way, is really fucking weird. Stop doing that.)
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Permalink Reply by jay. on -
I used to love it in high school... which totally makes me sound like a whore, but whatever. I'm opposite of you... once I settled down(read: got married), I decided that I didn't really like it anymore. He doesn't bitch about it... but if he did, I'd suck it up(nice pun, right?) and do it. (:
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Permalink Reply by Peyton Smythe on -
very nice pun, indeed. i like.
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Permalink Reply by Living with Balls on -
shit. I'd be complaining about that. I'm getting married soon. I hope my future wife doesn't stop giving blowjobs once we tie the knot.
Even though he doesn't complain about it, I'm sure he wouldn't mind one from time-to-time.
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Permalink Reply by jaminicole on -
I love it. It might be one of my favorite things. But I also like getting praise, and to be honest, I give really, really good head.
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Permalink Reply by Sara Nipples on -
Yeah, I feel like giving head is one of my strong suits. Too bad you can't put that on a job application, right?
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Permalink Reply by Living with Balls on
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I guess it couldn't hurt to put it on your resume
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Permalink Reply by Danaconda on -
1) I do not give more than I receive unless I'm in a relationship. I'm not one to just go to town on a girl when we first start hooking up. That might be a double standard, but whatever.
2) A bad beaner involves too much teeth, not enough spit and little-to-no eye contact. The girl also shouldn't start off too fast. Giving a blowjob is like running a 5-mile race: You're not going to start off in a sprint. Deepthroating is recommended, however I can understand if a chick can't take it all in. Swallowing is also highly recommended - spitting is a turn off but a part of me doesn't blame them for doing it. I don't mind swallowing the chick stuff if I'm comfortable with the girl. Also, most guys like when chicks mouth the balls - not me. I don't mind if a girl wants to play with them, but in all honesty I'm really ticklish, and balls-in-the-mouth makes me squirm and giggle like a little girl.
3) I'm not a fan of the awkward head maneuvering. However, I might caress the back of her neck, indicating she should house it. I'll usually just compliment the woman about how sexy she is, and say something along the lines of how great it would be if she gave me a blowjob.
HOUSE IT!
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Permalink Reply by Sara Nipples on
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I think giving blow jobs is way easier than going down on a girl. Personally, I think it would be disgusting to have to be downtown on a woman. Typically, I don't do the BJ until climax because it's something I do almost every single time sexy time is happening, and it's more foreplay than anything. However, if it's that time of the month - I will finish it off. I think my only downfall is that I absolutely cannot take that shit in my mouth. I had a horrible experience concerning that with the first guy I ever gave head. So it's just one of those things... I think it trades off, though. I might not be able to swallow or any of that, but I give my fiancee blow jobs A LOT. Three out of four days this week so far. And probably tonight. Bowchicawowwow.
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