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Are you happily married?
How did you know the person you married was "the one"?
Were they your first love? And if they weren't, what made them different than any other loves you've had? How did you know this love was going to last when the others didn't?
Were they your first love? And if they weren't, what made them different than any other loves you've had? How did you know this love was going to last when the others didn't?
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Permalink Reply by Katrina & the king on -
yes.
there was no question.
my first real love, yes.
he was very different. because he was serious. a lot of other guys said "oh we should get married....blah blah blah" but my husband just took me to the courthouse and we did it. I love him.
well, i know you've heard this before. but you just know
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Permalink Reply by Lacey Bean on -
I'm not married until March of 2010, but I've been living with my fiance for over a year now, so we're pretty much living like we're married. :) It's funny, whenever people ask me how I knew he was the one, the answer I have is that nothing he does irks the shit out of me. Haha. It's funny, but true!! All other ex-boyfriends would do SOMETHING that would drive me nuts, and make my skin crawl. Dave? (My fiance). Yeah he can annoy me at times, but I'm sure I annoy him, and nothing he does bothers me that much. :) And obviously I love him to death.
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Permalink Reply by imerika on -
Really, no one else except TWO people are happily married?? or engaged?
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Permalink Reply by kiwi on -
probably... cos there's this whole group of 20SB called dating but no bling :p
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Permalink Reply by Brittany on -
I am happily married. I knew he was the one when he took me back after everything I did to him. I noticed the difference between him and alot of other stupid guys out there.Alot of other guys just want friends with benefits but he wanted a committed relationship.
I am happy everyday because we have so much for our age. I am 20 and he is 24 and we have a 8 week old baby, our own 4 bedroom house,2 cars which he bought 1 for me and he goes to work everyday to take care of us. And he took so much care of me when I was recovering from my c-section. He is just so awesome, I just love him and respect him so much.
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Permalink Reply by jay. on -
I met my husband, Ryan, when I was 16. We dated for 2 years, the last 2 years of highschool. Our relationship was really serious for that age. We were talking about getting married right after highschool. I think when you're that young, typically you eventually get sick of your significant other. I never could get enough. At some point, he decided that he was going to join the Navy, and I got scared. Didn't want to be the Navy Wife, pathetic but true. He went anyway, because he had already signed the dotted line and didn't have a choice. After he left, I met someone else. He filled the void. We got engaged, stupidly. We were engaged for 3 months, and then Ryan randomly called me one night. We talked every night for next 3 months. I would cancel dates with my fiance so that I could sit at home and wait for Ryan's phone call. By some miracle, he got out of the Navy. The day he came home I went to see him. We kissed. RIght then, without a single doubt, I knew. That night, June 30th 2007, I went to see my fiance, explained the situation and gave him the ring back. I've been with Ryan ever since. We dated for 1 year before we got married, and we've been married a little over 1 year now.
He wasn't the first guy I ever loved, but he's the only person I've ever loved with this much intensity. It is absolutely an unconditional love. He's was the only guy who ever took the time to really figure me out, to completely understand me. He knows me so much better than I know myself. Even when everyone else gave up on me, rightfully, he never did, not once. He was always right there, pushing me to be my best. When my Grandpa died, he took the day off from work and laid in bed with me all day. He kept every secret I ever told him. He's always had the utmost respect for me and my opinons/beliefs/family, you name it. We just have a lot in common, and compliment eachother well. I can have more fun with him in one day, than I did altogether with any other guy I ever dated. I didn't "know" this love was going to be different, it just was, from day one. It's really hard to explain, but when you have that connection, it's undeniable.
WOW, sorry for the book!
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