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Permalink Reply by Jacque Gayle on -
The last person I was involved with had blurry lines..hence why I just say "person involved with" and not boyfriend or something. I would try and unblur the lines as soon as possible. We started out as friends and then it turned into more than that. For me it definitely wasn't a relationship, I didn't call him my boyrfriend, but he was hoping for more to come out of it. I got interested in someone else and that was pretty much it, we stayed friends for a while but he now has a new girlfriend and I haven't talked to him in a month.
Good luck!
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Permalink Reply by Dave on -
Just got through something that was pretty close to getting blurry. Things have been solved now, but it was a little tough for a while there.
http://littlearrowshurt.blogspot.com/2011/03/how-internet-dating-so...
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Permalink Reply by Kelli Hale on -
I was in a relationship like that for a while. We were great friends, but terrible lovers. Our break up was nasty, and now we don't speak to one another. There isn't a day that goes by that I wish we could have stayed just friends. I miss him, and I think it's dumb that we had to mess it up. :(
My advice would be to weigh the pros and cons SERIOUSLY before you pursue anything more than friends. Both of you. Good luck!
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Permalink Reply by little missy me on -
yeah, I'm in one at the moment, kinda like an extended one night stand turned friends? it's because Im moving cities and we both decided at the start that it'll end when I move.
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Permalink Reply by Pearl on -
ah i was just in something like that. i can't wait to see him when i head back and visit boston.
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Permalink Reply by little missy me on
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that'll be interesting... mayeb some hi-how-are-you-long-time-no-see-no-strings-attached catching up?
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Permalink Reply by Alice on -
From what I've experienced, honesty is the key. You have to be not only honest with the other person but with yourself. Very long story short, I got into a blurry relationship that could have been cleared up with a lot less heartache if both of us had been open and honest about what we were doing. By not laying it out, we assumed a lot, and that was one of the last nails in the coffin.
I know it's not anything great or wise, but it's the best I have to offer.
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Permalink Reply by Stephanie McGrew on -
OMG YES!! i just wrote a post about it! and it sucks!!
worst thing is i tried to be honest and try to set the rules and i still got no straight answer...boys suck!
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