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Do you fantasize about other people?
There was a study done that said 98% of men fantasize about someone else when they are in a relationship and only 80% of women do....
It claimed that women are more turned on my content and environment rather than the person.
What do you think of this?
And do you fantasize about other people during sex or masturbation?
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Permalink Reply by Angie on -
I think this... "It claimed that women are more turned on my content and environment rather than the person." is bullshit. :P I'll admit, I don't fantasize about other people. I love my wife, besides being fucking gorgeous, she's also an amazing person. We've been together for eight years and married for three, and ever since our honeymoon we've had sex daily and it's bliss. Sometimes it's short, sometimes it's long, sometimes it's kinky and sometimes it's more vanilla. We're very sexual people. We give each other adult bed time stories, we Role-Play, we have a full dress up and toy closet. She's my soul mate and my wife and my best friend. I DO have threesome ideas, but it's not really about other "people." It's usually about me, her and her dressed as this character or that character. If that makes sense :P No one could turn me on like her - rawr!
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Permalink Reply by Jewely Hoxie on -
haha aw, well its great to hear people have such a great sex life/relationship after so much time! keep having fun and experimenting!
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Permalink Reply by Sara Nipples on -
I never fantasize about other people. I do fantasize about my fiancee in different roles, though. (Rawr) And same with the threesome idea that Angela said. I picture how fun it would be to have a threesome, but I don't actually picture anyone else. More like just the idea of it is fun.
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Permalink Reply by TallBrunette on -
I'm not in a relationship. So I fantasize about EVERYONE.
I have a post that sort of deals with this though: http://tallbrunette.wordpress.com/2010/10/17/i-am-a-bachelor/ Near the bottom of the post is a list of things I both love AND fantasize about in men. They may be simple, but sometimes, its all you need.
xo
TB
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Permalink Reply by little m on -
Hells yes I fantasize about other men/women when I masturabeate, and even at times during intercourse.
I love my partner I truly do, but sometimes the routine needs a little spice and sometimes that spice is fantasy -- and I don't think there is anything wrong with that as long as it is never physically acted on in reality.
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Permalink Reply by Jewely Hoxie on
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If its a position where I'm facing them that tends to be more difficult... doggy style is suppose to be good.
How do you pull it off? Any certain positions or mind frame?
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Permalink Reply by Snuggle Slut on -
I've done it, usually when flying solo so to speak.
I love my boyfriend I really do, but their comes a time when I want to think about something or someone else, usually a fictional character. Honestly I don't see anything wrong with it. I am faithful to my partner and I know he sometimes fantasizes about other women, and still is faithful to me.
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Permalink Reply by Jewely Hoxie on
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I think it is healthy in a relationship for both partners to fantasize about something other than their partner... it almost makes the next time your together more refreshing? However, if thinking about your partner gives you the best orgasms every time then its totally cool to stick with that too... I guess that makes it up to the individual.
Being turned on by someone you aren't necessarily 'in love' with is natural... so fantasizing about someone you arent in a relationship with is the same thing.
Its fun and its safe!
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Permalink Reply by John Reckzeny on -
Everybody fantasizes. We all started fantasizing when we first discovered how to masturbate. Everyone fantasizes--it's just a matter of degrees.
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Permalink Reply by Jewely Hoxie on
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I masturbated long before I started fantasizing about people. I know many women who never think about people when the masturbate...but that is not to say I don't know women who also do fantasize about people... but masturbation doesn't = fantasizing about people
There is a difference between just a fantasy and then fantasizing about someone.... its whatever gets you off.
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Permalink Reply by Sara Nipples on
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Agreed word for word.
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Permalink Reply by TallBrunette on
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Totally.
Ridiculous, but Top Gear makes me hot.
And very strangely (and yet personal) the thought of very nice, very fast cars, and driving them, really, REALLY gets me there. Along with other things. But its not always a man that does it.
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