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Do you fantasize about other people?
There was a study done that said 98% of men fantasize about someone else when they are in a relationship and only 80% of women do....
It claimed that women are more turned on my content and environment rather than the person.
What do you think of this?
And do you fantasize about other people during sex or masturbation?
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Permalink Reply by Jewely Hoxie on -
I've heard that certain car companies (I forget which ones) make their ignition sound line up to a sound that gets women off in particular.
Have you listened to the song Motor by sebAstian? It could be the porn for your next self loving session.
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Permalink Reply by TallBrunette on -
I love you.
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Permalink Reply by Tyler Sutherland on -
Polling also suggests that women are more likely to lie about the answer to a question like this, even if it's anonymous and they have absolutely no incentive to lie. Men probably fantasize about other people more than women, but I'd suggest the numbers are much closer, like 90 and 98.
The obvious answer is most people do, but women feel more guilty about it and give the fantasies more weight. Men don't really see it as much of an indicator on their current sexual relationship. The beautiful part of fantasy is there are no limits or responsibilities. You can fantasize about sleeping with anyone and it's completely effortless, without the consequences of actually sleeping with them.
What's the point of fantasizing about stuff you can actually do?
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Permalink Reply by Sara Nipples on -
I don't think that's necessarily true. I don't see fantasizing about other people as a bad thing, and I wouldn't feel guilty if I did it. I agree 100% with the idea that women are more turned on by content and environment. I'm more interested in role playing than actually picturing myself having sex with someone else.
Then again, I never had an orgasm before my now-fiancee, so I could be totally wrong on this, judging by the fact that no other man has been able to do that. Might make me way less likely to want to fantasize about other people.
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Permalink Reply by Jewely Hoxie on
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I dont know if I would say I give them "more weight"... they get both of us off, haha.
If I'm in a relationship with a guy who wants to remain monogamous then by all means fantasize. I am not threatened by fantasy. We fantasize about things that we may want, but cant do... or things that get us off but we may never ever want to do... like women who fantasize about getting raped.
Thinking about people does it for me sometimes... but like I said earlier in this discussion.. I also enjoy not thinking about anyone or anything but the feeling really when I masturbate.
I'm curious because I know many women who do that, but I've never had a man tell me they don't think about someone or just think about the feeling...can someone change that for me?
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Permalink Reply by Jane Roberts on -
Oh yes... A lot. Crazy fantasies. No Joke.
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Permalink Reply by Jane Roberts on
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And though I feel like I'm straight most of the time I never think about men when I'm 'by myself" and only lesbian porn will turn me on. So I think I need to think about what my sexuality really is. I don't really get much from sex with guys too.... hmmmm....
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Permalink Reply by Jewely Hoxie on
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I definitely get off from lesbian and gay porn, I like them better than straight porn... I've never been in a relationship with a women, but I've hooked up with multiple... I've found that I am much more turned on when I am with a man... but I still love my women on women fantasies, they work better than the actual experience, I don't know what it is about the fantasy that just does it but not the real life...
maybe you should experiment and see if it is just the fantasy that is turning you on or if the actual act does too!
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Permalink Reply by Freeman Dyson on -
I can't masturbate to a blank. I'm always thinking of someone in particular.
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Permalink Reply by Estelle Nagel on -
No, I don't really think so. I'm always in the moment.
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Permalink Reply by Kanriah on -
No, I don't fantasize about other people. The only way I do is when I imagine three/foursome scenarios. Even then it's more Vague. Like it's still Husband and I and some shadowy Idea of another person/couple. So more like... the Idea of a penis or whatever. :)
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Permalink Reply by Jewely Hoxie on
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yeah, I kind of know what you mean.. like you image something else in way, but its also like you are more imagining a feeling of what that would be rather than what it actually is... haha I dont know if that makes sense.
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