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Have you ever had a stalker/blackmailer?
I've recently discovered that someone I work with is trying to destroy my life by sending emails via Facebook to my husband accusing me of having multiple affairs. This person says they have evidence (which they don't because it is not true in any way) and they just will not back off. I've narrowed it down to about 5 or so people from work, because I mentioned it to them carefully and then my husband received another message that was a little more angry and emotional because he told me about the message.
This person is trying to cause a divorce and it is a really disturbing thing. Its scary that someone is so interested in me that they would put this much effort into this.
Have any of you ever dealt with something like this? I am not sure what to do at this point. I don't have any hard evidence on who it is or anything and the facebook account they are using has nothing valuable on it. I am just starting to get a little worried for my safety, just based on the fact that this person is so upset in these messages and is trying so hard. I don't know. I've never dealt with this much crazy before! Yikes.
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This person is trying to cause a divorce and it is a really disturbing thing. Its scary that someone is so interested in me that they would put this much effort into this.
Have any of you ever dealt with something like this? I am not sure what to do at this point. I don't have any hard evidence on who it is or anything and the facebook account they are using has nothing valuable on it. I am just starting to get a little worried for my safety, just based on the fact that this person is so upset in these messages and is trying so hard. I don't know. I've never dealt with this much crazy before! Yikes.
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Permalink Reply by Kanriah on -
I have never had anyone trying to ruin a relationship anonymously. I have had someone work towards ruining my husband and I's relationship before we were married but thankfully he Trusts me completely when it comes to that. He knows I'm Overly honest and I would tell him if I wanted to and break up with him first. He knows I'd never ever cheat. She tried a two prong attack, telling Him I was cheating on Him and telling me they were together and he was scared I'd keep our son from him. She got stupid though and started to provide 'proof' that was actually more proof that she was full of crap. Hard to be with her in one state when he's with me in another. He hadn't wanted to believe it that she was Trying to break us up. He wanted to believe that since she was his friend that she was just looking out for him Even though he did believe she was wrong, and that I was misunderstanding what she was saying, that she said they were together like They're Hanging Out, not sleeping together. After that there was No denying what she was doing. He cut her out of his life after that thankfully.
I hope your husband knows You enough to know the Truth. If he does hopefully he'll block him/her and not leave that avenue open.
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Permalink Reply by Erika on -
He knows that I would never do something like that. Its just sickening really that someone would try to do this. They obviously are insane to think that their BS is going to do anything. I'm mostly just concerned for my safety at this point. I don't want some crazy person trying to snatch me or something.
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