A BJ a Day Keeps the Whores at Bay Part I
So, I know this title sounds a bit vulgar, but I am an East Coast girl so I tend to tell it like it is. Let me be clear, the following information is assuming that you are in a healthy committed relationship where you both love each other and want to work to keep it that way.
Okay, back to the good stuff.
If you want to keep your man happy, satisfied, and faithful, just give him daily blowjobs. Seriously, this works. Consider this scenario--you give your man a blowjob before he goes to work, he gets off, he feels great, he thinks his girlfriend is great, his sexual needs are satisifed so he avoids succumbing to other sexual thoughts every 7 seconds. Hence... he focuses more on his work and less on outside distractions (co-worker that flirts with him, cute waitress at lunch, hot chic that crosses the street while he is driving) and more on your relationship.
It is a simple solution for people who aim to:
A. keep their relationship sexually exciting
B. keep their significant other focused on them sexually
C. keep their significant other satisfied and happy
D. avoid the sexual staleness that often occurs in long term relationships
If you can accomplish those three things, you are closer to being in a healthy happy relationship whereby both parties trust each other and want to be together.
Don't get me wrong though... This BJ a day rule goes both ways...tune into next post.
My wife and I love one another with and without sex. If we could never have sex again, well... It'd SUCK! But on the other hand, we'd still be together and have a strong, awesome marriage. We believe sex is important in a loving relationship and we honestly find a way to get sex in everyday unless we're sick, camping with family, etc. :P
I think oral sex is as wonderful and important as any other type of sex. I wouldn't cheat on my wife if she couldn't give me some lovin' and same with her, but it's still hell of a lot of fun, romantic and sometimes down right rough and that's what we like.
I think if you NEED to be doing something sexual every day or your spouse/partner will be "tempted" you're in one hell of a bad relationship. :/ Just my two cents! (And by "you're" I don't mean you, it's in general.)
I agree with this.
sex - of any kind - does not equal loyalty or happiness. It does help though, and should be a part of most healthy relationships.
I can see the point here. I would have absolutely no problem doing this for my guy every day (I don't know about in the morning because I'm SO not a morning person) but I would totally be will to do this. I actually really LIKE to do so. My view on oral sex though is that if he's not willing to reciprocate, I'm not going to go there.
I agree with what a lot of the comments have stated. I think if you're in a happy, committed relationship, the sex is just an extra reason why it's awesome. That would be why I would do it for the guy. Not because I would worry he'd leave or sleep around with some other girl if I didn't. I would probably feel a little more secure knowing that I give him what he needs, but I'd do it because it's fun and I love him.