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How Many People Have You Loved?

How many people have you said "I Love You" to, and meant it?
Are there any you regret?

I'm sure this has come up before, but I am willing to bet...especially based on the sex before marriage thing, that the answers will vary greatly.

My total is four. I don't regret any of them.

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Permalink Reply by T ™ on April 14, 2009 at 11:22am

I've said it to 3.

My Ex-husband- looking back I can tell you that it was young love and not the real thing.

M- We're not together but he is still my best friend. Don't regret telling him.

P- last ex-bf.. I care a lot about him and i do still like him but i didn't really love him.

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Permalink Reply by phampants on April 14, 2009 at 3:03pm

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Permalink Reply by DShan on April 14, 2009 at 4:44pm

succinct!

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Permalink Reply by Oats on April 14, 2009 at 3:16pm

3: HS-college GF
college-grad school GF
grad school- current (Wife)

I told my first HS girlfriend I loved her, but really I was dating her to date. She was a total bitch, treated me like shit, and dumped my ass for another guy she hadn't even met yet. The others, yeah. I don't still love either of the ex-gfs. I think of them every now and then, and when I run into them it's weird and awkward. Other than that, I love my wife. She's awesome.

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Permalink Reply by imerika on April 14, 2009 at 3:22pm

Two but I really only meant it with one.

Love hurts man.

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Permalink Reply by Novelista Barista on April 14, 2009 at 3:30pm

yes... yes it does. :/

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Permalink Reply by phampants on April 14, 2009 at 4:40pm

but it's worth it

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Permalink Reply by Novelista Barista on April 14, 2009 at 3:30pm

actually meant it? 2.

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Permalink Reply by JackoStain on April 14, 2009 at 3:31pm

2-HS Sweet heart.
College SH

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Permalink Reply by Mindy on April 14, 2009 at 3:48pm

I can honestly say I was "in love" three times (including the current boyfriend), but I said it four times. Shit though, in 9th grade, you say it without knowing what you truly feel.

I don't regret any of them, even though I clearly only love one of them now any more than simply on a friendship level. And maybe I look back and ask "why did I feel that way," but I know I was happy in those moments and don't at all regret anything. Nope, not even Mr. Freshman Year of High School.