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If you found out that your Ex boyfriend whom you dated (for two years) and broke up with, is getting engaged to a girl after dating her for two months..would you or should you be concernd/angry/upset?
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Permalink Reply by Lyla on -
I would be a little upset if it happened to me even after breaking up...because after u r together with someone for two years and he is getting engaged to someone else..its definitely going to sting...
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Permalink Reply by Shlee on -
I'll admit, I'd be hurt. But then again ... I think I would be thankful that I wasn't entering into a sham of a marriage with someone so desperate to be with someone. Obviously, we didn't belong together and I would leave with my sanity.
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Permalink Reply by Marisa Knudsen on
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How long did this happen after you two broke up? Because if it was very recently after your break up, I am thinking either she's just a rebound and it's going to fail miserably or he was seeing her while he was still with you.
And NO, you shouldn't be concerned/angry/upset but since you are human you are going to.
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Permalink Reply by Harley Jane on -
I'd laugh. What an idiot!
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Permalink Reply by Essence Aliece Beasley on -
I think it really depends on the feelings you have for the guy. You broke up with yours, so you must have thought things wouldn't work out between you two. I, however, was dumped, and I know that I still love that jerk, so if he up and proposed to some stranger, I would be upset, concerned, angry, dejected, irritated, and utterly devastated. In that order.
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Permalink Reply by Mollie Marissa on -
Well, I would feel hurt and upset, personally. I don't think you can attach a "should" to feelings; feelings aren't good or bad. But yeah, that'd be pretty normal I would think, depending on the rest of the situation. Would I recommend pining after him or letting it affect how you view yourself? No way. Would I totally understand if you were crushed and ate a tub of ice cream a night for a few weeks? Of course! Relationships are muddy painful things sometimes and sometimes how a special person acts after leaving us can be just as hurtful as when they were with us because we might feel betrayed, lied to, deceived, un-special, or a myriad of things.
Grieve as long as you need to over a lost love, then let it go and move on with your life. Maybe he'll be happy, maybe he won't, but he's not in your life for a reason and looking back only causes you to miss the blessings up ahead.
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Permalink Reply by Andie on -
I'd be livid but hey I just got out of a 3 1/2 year relationship so my nerves are a little shot.
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