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Its amazing what a couple diamonds on a girl's finger will do to her. I went from bartender writer to travel writer... i still blog with a vodka drink in hand though. Has any other 'just married' bloggers or 'married for quite some time now' bloggers found themselves making certain changes to their lives after the 'i do'?... i would love to know about them and send me a link to you blog because im sure u have a funny story to go along with it.

 

 

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hmm.. I'm getting married this Friday so I wonder the same thing. What changes have you made?
I was married about a year ago. I really can't think of too many changes besides my name. I feel like I have a lower tolerance for stupid questions like "When are the babies coming?" It gets old fast.
We went from newlyweds to new home owners of a 100 year old fixer upper. It's fun and stressful all at the same time and that's pretty much what my blog is about.
This is what we're doing (fixing up a century home)-- I feel like it's helping us 'grow up' and grow together as well.
(though we're not newlyweds.. not even remotely).

As for changes on the whole.. I think we're both changing gradually, growing into the people we want to be/will be. If anything, I'd have to say we're more conscientious.
I can't really think of any change! Except I did take my wife's last name, as I didn't really like my old one!

The only difference is that we're closer than ever - we have our years of dating, being engaged and now marriage! She also makes me see myself in a different light because of her sweet love and words, so I have a much more beautiful view of myself inside and out. I can call her my wife and vice versa. People seem to take us much more serious now - when we were young teenagers they said we were in puppy love!

I believe a marriage between the souls is much more important than a marriage with words and a ring - not that, that isn't. I loved our wedding and I never ever take my ring off. But what we have, that soul bond, is much more important. ^_^ We plan on one day having a handfasting for Forever and a Day. As in, we unite our souls completely. Even though they already are! ♥
I agree that it does feel different, a much closer bond I think. It's wonderful! It's great to feel that you're facing the world with another person! I do agree with you Shelly though - I was first asked that on the day after we returned from our honeymoon. Hmmm!
Kate (http://citygirldiariesec1.blogspot.com/)
This comment made me swoon.
AH i got the babies thing a lot too. The hits started coming at me on my wedding day... i had to be like lets get through this first. I also feel a closer bond to my husband... we lived together before we got married and we've talked about getting a house, but life just seemed to go on when we got back from the honeymoon.
LOL well its been a year now, and I'd say the biggest change is the baby fever. Which I swore up and down I wouldn't get. ... I was wrong. http://ourmarriageadventure.com is my blog if you want to check it out :)
oh i love ur blog!! ill def keep checking back... and stealing that pumpkin pie recipie :)
LOL My husband swears by it...I don't eat it myself, but its his #1 fav dessert.
We get to live together now! Both parents would have FLIPPED out if we had before we were married... well, if we had the same address. He lived with me unofficially til he moved back into his parents house after his roommate bailed. The biggest difference is how MY friends have acted towards me. It's really sad, actually, since I was the first one to get married all my friends assumed that I've changed, when I haven't at ALL!

I wrote about it at www.andnowlights.blogspot.com a couple posts back!

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