Learning how to date like a man

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Permalink Reply by Koko on May 8, 2010 at 1:25am

Loved the blog post.

I have to be honest sometimes I wish I was more up front and not so detached (for lack of better words). I'm generally the type of person who isn't too stressed if he calls or doesn't. I usually get complaints about not returning calls or not bothering to catch up etc. It's not done on purpose though often I think it appears that way (It's just that dating and/ or a relationship isn't top in my list atm).

Having said that though - if you like someone, then take the time out to see them etc. If you don't then don't waste their time and yours. Life's too short...and don't change yourself for the sake of the 'game' - it's not worth it.

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Permalink Reply by Nycole on May 9, 2010 at 2:15am

great reply! i agree with what you're saying

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Permalink Reply by Richard Boehmcke on May 9, 2010 at 11:17am

I don't know how to date. I don't even know how to be a man. I just find people I like and try to spend a lot of time with them. Granted the restraining order makes that difficult sometimes, but otherwise thats my philosophy. =)

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Permalink Reply by T on May 9, 2010 at 5:24pm

great post !!!!

im gonna try this since what ive been doing hasnt been working hahahaha but you mention the guy who says he wants a realtionship then freaks out when you get close...what a bout a guy who says he dosent want a realtionship then acts like you are in one with him.....??????

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Permalink Reply by Tiffani D. on May 9, 2010 at 5:43pm

I totally feel where you're coming from: I will be 28 this year and still single, and I've learned my lesson: I will not be the bitch in the dating game, no sir. I, like an idiot, thought that if I was just normal old me, that relationships would be alright if I found the right person. No. You can't just be you, no matter what people say. You have got to date like a man, or you will get smacked down. I'm not even dating at this point because I will be starting grad school in Sept., and I figure, I'm moving away, and will have my head stuck in books, why bother.

P.S. Love the blog :)

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Permalink Reply by Queen Bee on July 11, 2010 at 5:56pm

o im reeli . gd at hiding my feelings. inside im totally gettin carried away imagining kids and familym etc but to him i have a cool exterior of yh whateva. lol butt then wen we have our talk the 'lets not see other ppl tlk' i get so clingy n emotional its crazy. damn my girlish ways sigh

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