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i'm approaching my previous max. four months.

 

ok, so it's not long. four months without sex is not a lot. but in 7 years of having sex on a consistent basis, it feels like an eternity. 

 

it'll be six more months until i get back to the states and back to my boyfriend and back to the sex.

 

a friend of mine claims his virginity grew back after a year. he's now and extra virgin; it's been two years.

 

so make me feel better. what's the longest you've gone without it? 

 

and while we're at it, what TV shows should i get into to distract me?

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First, I am pretty sure once you lose your viriginity, it's gone.  There's no going back. That being said, I think the longest I've gone was 2-3 months.  He was out of town for an internship one summer.  I visited him one weekend, but I spent a majority of that summer traveling and working, so it wasn't pure torture.  I was busy.

 

And TV shows?  I prefer anything trashy and of the reality variety. The Real World Las Vegas. It's so bad it's good.

well, we obviously don't think that he's honestly a virgin now. not physically. but after a certain point, turning it back on becomes more and more difficult and nervewracking -- sort of like being a virgin all over again, ya dig?

 

I'm trying to stay busy. It's mostly working.

Ahh I see what you're saying.

I was concerned because I spoke to someone who was not having sex with her boyfriend because she wanted to be a (and I quote) "A virgin with him" ....Yeah....I'll let that sink in a minute....

She has had sex with her boyfriend before that.
...wut? that's the most illogical reasoning i've ever heard.
That logic is so spectacular I actually laughed out loud. Oh dear...
I've had 4 months without sex whilst in a relationship where I saw my boyfriend ever day... THAT is frustrating. But I think that is about the longest I have ever been.

And as for TV, buy box sets of sitcoms to sit and watch in marathons. That'll keep you busy :)

god, it'd be so much more difficult if i saw my boyfriend every day. or at all. 

 

any suggestions on tv shows? i'm coming to the end of my 30 rock binge and am stumped for what to conquer next.

I'm running through Scrubs at the moment, it's getting me through boring daytimes.

I went a year without it. That just ended last September.  It was only supposed to be six months... then I became super picky after going so long without it, it turned into a year. 

  Don't worry...give it another month or two and that part of you will shut off and you will channel that energy into something else.

 To be honest, at this point, I'm regretting turning it back on.

 

xo

i'm really hoping the energy starts pouring out somewhere else...i can see how it'd make you start channeling into other (more productive!) directions. waiting waiting waiting...

TV Shows= Daria. 

                Top Gear.

                No Reservations

               Scrubs

                Serenity

               Mad Men

               Californication

 

YES, TOP GEAR. Watch Top Gear.

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