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I was reading through the thread about being Secretly Promiscuous where somebody mentioned that in their first year after losing their virginity, they slept with 8-10 people. I was the same way (except for me it was 6 people in the first six months, then nobody for a year...). And I got to thinking about it, and I know this to have been the case with many women.
Why is this?
Did you become a slut after losing your virginity?
What was the reasoning?
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Permalink Reply by RAY J on -
I was in a relationship with the guy for about a year and a half before I lost it to him at age 20 and while the first time sucked (he wasn't a virgin yet he couldn't even last 30 seconds - wtf is that?!) and well we would from time to time, but the sex with him was never really good (for me) because he didn't know how to please me (he also claimed to be great at oral yet when he did it was more weird than good as once again, he didn't seem to know what the hell he was doing). Near the end of our relationship I lost interest in sex with him (he never could please me from it and always had to use his hand to take care of me afterwards) and we did it maybe once a month at most.
Now with hubby, he too talked about being great in bed and everything, but he actually had more experience too. We had talked about waiting a few months at least before we did it together but then we got drunk one night, I was horny and yeah... that was just a little over our first month together. And he's like a god compared to my ex as he actually knows what the hell he's doing.
I don't see the point in meaningless sex, not to mention I wasn't really single that long between the 2 relationships either so that's probably why.
I did have a roommate my freshman year of college though who lost it to her boyfriend before she went off the college and they broke up but were still sorta together that first semester. Then I guess over Christmas break they broke it off for good and wow... when she came back for 2nd semester I swear it seemed like she had a different guy spending the night in our room every weekend! It was even rumored that she slept with most of the guys on this one all guys floor in our building too! She did settle down the last half of college with a few longer relationships and eventually got married too, but yeah... by the end of 2nd semester I had no clue how many she had gotten with!
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Permalink Reply by Sara Nipples on -
I'm really happy that I'm not the only person who did this! I lost my virginity when I was 17 and a year later, I had had sex with 6 people total. Then I realized I was getting my "numbers" too high and felt embarassed so I stopped. But now that I'm getting married next year, the numbers don't seem to matter anymore. I guess I'm rounded out at an even 8 now. My fiancee doesn't want to know my number, but he told me his is 7.
So that means his is probably actually 12, right? Isn't that how guys do it? lol
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Permalink Reply by Sara Nipples on
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Doesn't the "Man Code" say to round down so as not to hurt your partner's feelings?
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Permalink Reply by Sara Nipples on
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Oh, and I think the reason I kept having sex is because I never had an orgasm. So I kept trying different guys in hopes that one of them would do the trick. Never happened until I met my fiancee.
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Permalink Reply by Amanda Abella on -
I didn't become a slut after losing my virginity. Though I sure as hell wanted to. A sleeping giant had been awakened and simultaneously crushed by the guy I lost it to. I wanted to throw my hands up in the air and yell out "I give up. Men are all the same. If you can't beat them join them."
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Permalink Reply by Natalie Paige on -
once i lost my v card. i became a whore and then started a blog.
awkwardsexandthecity.blogspot.com
natalie
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Permalink Reply by Juliana on -
a. Why is this? when your mom first gave you candy, did you want it all the time afterward?
b. Did you become a slut after losing your virginity? what is a slut? what is a? what is? what?
c. What was the reasoning? see (a)
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Permalink Reply by Tiffani D. on -
I lost my virginity in my first major relationship at 23 (yep, a late bloomer). But once the can was open, I took the worms out and used them to go fishing. But just with the one guy. But, I can guarantee you that I was having more sex than the person who slept with 8-10 ppl. GUARANTEED. I was a freakin' horn dog.
I guess I still am but my relationship is over and it takes too long to meet someone and then decide I like them enough to let them inside me, so I gave up for now.
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Permalink Reply by Pearl on -
i call it making up for lost time...what you mentioned is exactly that is/has happened to me. i guess i went/am still going a wee bit crazy, but being a late bloomer kind of did me in.
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Permalink Reply by Bria Marie on -
I love all the responses. I think that I became a slut because, well, I felt like crap. I grew up religious. Sex was supposed to be special. And then I lost my virginity to a man trying to make him love me. Seriously. He had dumped me and I thought it was because I wouldn't have sex. So I was like, fine I will. And it didn't make him love me. Within a couple months I had slept with two more people, and within six months that had climbed to 5 or 6. After that I was in a relationship for 11 months and we didn't have sex. At all. Not once. When that ended, it was slutty mcslutterson time again. Finally I grew out of that, and now I am a good girl. But really, I think I did it because I felt like shit. I grew up thinking sex was supposed to be saved and be important and I threw away my virginity in a futile attempt to keep a man who wasn't right for me around (but lord did i ever want him to be the right man!). I felt like it didn't matter anymore, like I was going to go to hell anyways, so why not. And then I started to love and crave the sex.
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Permalink Reply by Queen Bee on -
its like pringles .. once you pop you cant stop as lame and degrading as it sounds its true, once you first have sex i dunno why bt you just wana have it allll the tym. its like crazy lo
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