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Have any of you tried online dating (match.com, eharmony, etc.)? I just started match.com a few weeks ago and it is a lot harder than I thought it would be! There were so many winks, emails, and phone calls to keep up with...it was overwhelming. And now I have been on a few dates and the guys are nice and cute and funny, but there aren't any sparks. How long do you keep dating someone without sparks? When do you move from formal dinner and drinks to hanging out on the couch watching a movie? Should I wait for him to call me after a date? I just feel like I don't know what I am doing.

I also struggled with if I should blog about it or not. I gave in to the urge somewhat, but I am so scared one of my dates will find my blog or if it did work out with someone he would look back and read about my adventures-in-dating.

What are your experiences with online dating? Got any tips?

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I actually ended up finding someone I really like on match! It was overwhelming at first with all the winks and emails and meeting random strangers for coffee ect. But I have been seeing a guy I started talking to in Jan. and we first met in Feb. I put dating other people on hold now because I want to see where it goes with him. So online dating can work and I am proof (for now- fingers crossed!)

Thank you all for sharing your stories and advice! It really helped!
Ahh,,,,this gives me HOPE!!! Happy for you!!! Have fun!
Sure is a lot harder than I thought too!! Overwhelming, time consuming and not meeting many quality men on Match.com! I'm going to write about my online trials all of next week.

I think commenter's line below is the best way to go about it: Just have fun with it and look at it as a new way to meet people!

Good luck.
Just looked on Match.. it's rather horrific...again. What are some good REAL life ways to meet men? Anyone have some ideas, I would love to hear. Thanks!

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