What's your vice?

Being recently single, I've started to see a pattern emerging in my behavior - I like men that are unavailable in some way. Men that are dating someone, older, a teacher, an employer, etc etc. Pursuing them becomes a hobby or a challenge that I enjoy. That may sound terrible to some of you, and maybe it IS terrible in some cases. But it's honest.

I've felt bad about it in the past, but I think I'm starting to understand it in a new way. I've never really done anything BAD. I never did drugs, I never snuck out of my parents house while growing up. I got good grades, I have high expectations for my life. I eat well, I don't drink too much, I'm nice to the people around me. I don't litter. Getting myself into romantic "trouble" is my thing; it's the only unhealthy thing that I seem to want to occupy myself with.

What's your bad thing?

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Permalink Reply by Shelly on January 17, 2013 at 8:26pm

Bravo TV.

I want to be laying on my couch, mouth agape, and brain turning into goo.  It's so bad, but so good!

Permalink Reply by Hanna on January 18, 2013 at 2:38pm

Hahaha brain turning into goo! I think a LOT of people can relate to this one.

Permalink Reply by Rachel Emmilee on January 21, 2013 at 9:02am

I love trashy, pathetic TV too...

Permalink Reply by Lauren on January 18, 2013 at 4:32pm

You sound exactly like me! My friends judge me for it too. I've been told that it's because while I like to lead in my everyday life, but when I comes to men I want to be the one that's taken care of. We both just need to find guys who both fit those characteristics but are also not inappropriate to be with. Good luck!

Permalink Reply by Amanda S. on January 18, 2013 at 7:46pm

I'm kind of like you, but I don't actually pursue any of these guys.  I stay away from taken, but I admire ferociously from afar.  I definitely am attracted to the emotionally unavailable though.  Emotionally unavailable attracts me like a very stupid moth to a very stupid flame.

So that, and also drinking too much wine followed by eating about 18 slices of pizza.  Seriously. 

Permalink Reply by little on January 18, 2013 at 11:50pm

as far as dating goes, unavailable men too. except in my case i like guys that are in relationships or recently out of one. blah.

Permalink Reply by Hanna on January 20, 2013 at 5:07pm

I'm glad I"m not alone...I just had this conversation with my mom and she said she used to be the same exact way!

Permalink Reply by Pearl on January 19, 2013 at 5:50am

Dating-wise? I seem to like white boys. Hahaha. That's not really a vice.

Vice in general? Chips/snacks and the Investigation Discovery channel. Damn them!

Permalink Reply by Martin on January 19, 2013 at 11:37am

Laziness.

Watching a movie instead of writing one.

Watching anything instead of writing.

Eating a microwave meal instead of cooking from scratch.

Taking the bus instead of walking.

Staying in alone instead of being out and sociable.

You get the idea.

It's annoying because it is a trait that I really can't stand in others, yet I'm the biggest hypocrite of them all. Hence my self-loathing.

Permalink Reply by Ally Gregory-Moore on January 19, 2013 at 4:45pm

I have the biggest sweet tooth. I can't resist cake, brownies, cookies, ice cream, etc. I exercise extra just so I can embellish my sweet tooth constantly.

Permalink Reply by Leah Martin on January 19, 2013 at 8:40pm

This is me, too. But add anything salty. And take away the exercising extra.

Permalink Reply by Shelly on January 20, 2013 at 11:09am

I can't think of a better reason for exercising!

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