Being recently single, I've started to see a pattern emerging in my behavior - I like men that are unavailable in some way. Men that are dating someone, older, a teacher, an employer, etc etc. Pursuing them becomes a hobby or a challenge that I enjoy. That may sound terrible to some of you, and maybe it IS terrible in some cases. But it's honest.
I've felt bad about it in the past, but I think I'm starting to understand it in a new way. I've never really done anything BAD. I never did drugs, I never snuck out of my parents house while growing up. I got good grades, I have high expectations for my life. I eat well, I don't drink too much, I'm nice to the people around me. I don't litter. Getting myself into romantic "trouble" is my thing; it's the only unhealthy thing that I seem to want to occupy myself with.
What's your bad thing?
I want to be laying on my couch, mouth agape, and brain turning into goo. It's so bad, but so good!
Hahaha brain turning into goo! I think a LOT of people can relate to this one.
I love trashy, pathetic TV too...
You sound exactly like me! My friends judge me for it too. I've been told that it's because while I like to lead in my everyday life, but when I comes to men I want to be the one that's taken care of. We both just need to find guys who both fit those characteristics but are also not inappropriate to be with. Good luck!
I'm kind of like you, but I don't actually pursue any of these guys. I stay away from taken, but I admire ferociously from afar. I definitely am attracted to the emotionally unavailable though. Emotionally unavailable attracts me like a very stupid moth to a very stupid flame.
So that, and also drinking too much wine followed by eating about 18 slices of pizza. Seriously.
as far as dating goes, unavailable men too. except in my case i like guys that are in relationships or recently out of one. blah.
I'm glad I"m not alone...I just had this conversation with my mom and she said she used to be the same exact way!
Dating-wise? I seem to like white boys. Hahaha. That's not really a vice.
Vice in general? Chips/snacks and the Investigation Discovery channel. Damn them!
Watching a movie instead of writing one.
Watching anything instead of writing.
Eating a microwave meal instead of cooking from scratch.
Taking the bus instead of walking.
Staying in alone instead of being out and sociable.
You get the idea.
It's annoying because it is a trait that I really can't stand in others, yet I'm the biggest hypocrite of them all. Hence my self-loathing.
I have the biggest sweet tooth. I can't resist cake, brownies, cookies, ice cream, etc. I exercise extra just so I can embellish my sweet tooth constantly.
This is me, too. But add anything salty. And take away the exercising extra.
I can't think of a better reason for exercising!