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Wish you could block your ex?
I just got out of a never-ending, tumultuous relationship. My ex continues to read my blog MANY, MANY times a day. I got toolator but he figured out how to get past that! For some reason it is so infuriating to know he's reading it!
I don't want to make my blog private just for one person. He'll also send me mean texts when he reads something he doesn't like (did I mention it was a terrible relationship?). I just wish I could make it impossible for him to access anything on there.
Is there anyone who knows about your blog that you wish you could block?
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Permalink Reply by Ethony on -
This is a tricky one because you can not even block his current email without him maybe signing up or logging in with another one. I feel you I really do. I had this same issue about 6 months ago. Luckily my ex said he would stop following my blog or reading it. Whether he did or not who knows but he doesn't contact me.
If it feels like harassment then you could pursue that line. Or maybe change the blog posts for a little while so that he has nothing to comment on. If he continues pursue the harassment line. He is taking it out of the Blogisphere and texting you. That can be taken as harassment. Mind you I am not 100% on the details of your relationship either but it sucks that he wont leave you a lone.
Good luck with it all. Ex's suck. Guys suck!
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Permalink Reply by Meghan on -
oh man... that's SUPER tough. i definitely feel you... i've blocked all my exes on facebook after a few negative experiences. it's so hard having open, public elements of yourself out on the internet... but definitely don't make your blog private just for that one person! DON'T LET HIM WIN! :)
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Permalink Reply by Krysten (After 'I Do') on -
I'm friends with some of my exes but I have one in particular that used to do things like that. Drove me nuts. I just ignored him and eventually he gave up. Don't even let him know you get his messages. Hopefully he'll eventually see he's not getting to you and give up.
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Permalink Reply by Lexi on -
I'm pretty sure that my ex, his family and his friends all read my blog trying to find out juicy gossip and see if I'm writing anything slanderous about them. At first it bothered me, but now, 6 or 7 months on, I could really care less. If they're that easily offended then they really need to get a life. Sometimes I wish I could write more about the divorce and be a bit more open with some of the stuff concerning it, but really- a lot of that doesn't need to be said aloud. It would more or less just be me venting and getting it off my chest. (and potentially putting myself up for a he-said-she-said lawsuit.) Other than when I retrieved my belongings from him in March, we haven't had any contact with each other... wait, we did run into each other at a bar once, but he left as soon as he got downwind that I was there- and I like it that way. He can say whatever he wants about me- I know it's not true, and anyone who knows how much of a liar he is, knows it isn't either.
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Permalink Reply by Brittany on -
Thanks for the comments, ladies. This guy doesn't ever listen when I tell him to not contact me. He instead tells me I'm confused/over reacting/over emotional. I moved to a new state and thankfully this has given me the ability to end it for good. Unfortunately, he won't just leave me alone. I don't think it arises to harassment but it does feel like he's intruding on my personal space! Even though a blog isn't exactly personal, it is where I feel like I can open up. It sucks not having that freedom right now.
I'm sad other people have gone through this, too, but I'm also glad I'm not alone.
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Permalink Reply by Oats on -
I'd just smash his fingers with a hammer.
Let him try to find your blog typing with his nose.
That or, write a series of blogs intended to make him feel uncomfortable. A long series. So that he tries to confront you. And then you explain that the series will continue until he stops visiting your blog.
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Permalink Reply by Estelle Nagel on -
Start blogging about you met and starting dating Mike Tyson. And how really, really jealous he is turning out to be.
www.lochessmonster.blogspot.com
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Permalink Reply by dhpotter on -
My ex boyfriends MOTHER.
I couldn't stand that she read it while we were together, but now that we're through the fact that she reads it annoys me to no end. I suggest that you don't mind what he does, and ignore his texts. He'll eventually get the picture when he realizes that he isn't getting a rise out of you anymore. I'm guessing that in his opinion any attention from you is better than nothing. Ignore him; it'll be easier than retaliating. And if you see you got a text form him, delete it before you read it. You don't have to read them.
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