Is it wrong?

Replies to This Discussion

Permalink Reply by Candace Wilson on September 9, 2009 at 2:12pm

It's hard to change your entire life when your bundle of joy arrives, no matter how long you've been building yourself up for it (usually all 9 months!) When my son was first born it was so hard to see my friends going out and doing what I was usually involved in with them, but couldn't go because I had to stay home with my son, or if I did go I had to lug around a stroller and diaper bag and all the necessities. But, as he has gotten older, I don't want to do things without him. He's 16 months old now and I've COMPLETELY chilled out on the crazy mom aspect of things, and he goes everywhere with us, and I wouldn't want it any other way. Having a baby doesn't just instantly make you a mommy, it makes you a woman with a child, becoming a mommy is a process, and I'm sure you are well into that process and doing fabulously at it! :)

Hope that helped!

Permalink Reply by Jessica on September 14, 2009 at 12:54pm

I don't think their is anything wrong with that. I have 2 children and i am 22. I wish on some days that i had my old life back, i think its natural to feel that way. I just know that my life wouldn't be the same with out my children. They make me who i am today and so if God could promise me the same children i would do it all over agian and be young and enjoy my youth and finish college. But these things makes us stronger!

Permalink Reply by Amy R on November 3, 2009 at 2:10pm

I don't think it's wrong to feel that way! I feel like that sometimes too. I miss being able to go somewhere by myself. Now I have to load up a bunch of baby gear, get baby ready, get myself ready and by the time thats all done I don't even want to go any more! I miss being able to just hop in the car, turn up some good music, and go! And of course I miss going to dance clubs, and partying with friends. But I have a new life, and I wouldn't change if for the world :) <3

http://omgitslittlet.blogspot.com/

Permalink Reply by Nikki Fadeyibi on November 25, 2009 at 8:18pm

I think it is completely natural I have twin 15 month old girls and yes sometimes I miss my old life but my new one with twins is always better I love them to pieces.