... What about getting freaked out?... the Good ole' cold feet?..

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Permalink Reply by Kayleigh on April 15, 2010 at 5:26pm

I'm getting the cold feet! not about "firsts" that I'll never have again... I'm glad about that! I'm just worrying about the little things... and wondering if they will be big things in 40 years.

and the future in-laws are already pissing me off!

Permalink Reply by Sara Nipples on June 9, 2010 at 3:51pm

Yes, this has been my new scare lately. My wedding is five months away, but my fiancee and I had a huge fight this past weekend concerning finances. Which is the number one reason for divorce in America. Which is freaking me the fuck out. Now I'm really worried that we're going to get into this, get in fights, and forget what made us love each other in the first place. And then because I'm thinking all those things, I worry that I'm not really ready to get married. But then ten minutes later, I know I'm ready because I love him with everything I have. My head is getting very confused.

And I'm not so much going to miss the firsts with other people -- but I will miss that fear/excitement/energy I got on my first few dates with him. I still get excited to see him, but it's not the same as it used to be. I do miss living alone and getting to do whatever I wanted whenever I wanted... but life with him is better so I guess you have to make some sacrifices and just do your best to keep the spark alive.

Permalink Reply by Andrea on June 17, 2010 at 1:57pm

No cold feet here... unless we are talking the changing of the last name! I know for sure I want to be with my fiance forever. I love that he is going to be my last kiss, date, etc..... changing my last name makes me come close to breaking out in hives though. Not sure why. I don't want to be one of those women who keep their last name (no offense to you guys out there... If you want to, I say go for it!), but I am TERRIFIED of having a different last name. It just seems more trouble than it's worth!