wondered if any of you have got yourself into a pickle like this at all and how you handled it? basically i have two guys i really like. One is my ex but sometimes current lover and the other is a guy i've just met. In a careless move of anger i did something i never do and arranged for both to be in the same place at the same time... my birthday! of course i will have centre of attention so how can they not want to give me a birthday kiss?!