In your experience, what tends to be people first impession of you? What is the first thing that they notice?   I'm told by a lot of people, after they get to know me, that they were intimidated by me at first. It always shocks me. Not because I'm Miss Friendly Pants, because I know I'm not, but I am quiet, small and usually hoarding zebra cakes.   First thing they notice...? I get the most comme…