J. Dustin Durham's Page

We've all been through it. The relationships that deteriorate because the other person is too immature to date or marry. They let the small things tear you apart; they become jealous of your ex, they suffer through sexual insecurity, they get angry at the wrong things, and they don't know how to properly communicate in order to work through issues. Either complete silence or yelling and anger seem to be their ideal forms of communication



So, we go on the hunt - the eternal search for… Continue

I blame the media.



We're over indulged with love (or Hollywood's idealistic and lofty concepts of it) which causes us to harbor fantasies of what it should be. Then, when we're in the midst of this wonderful miracle, we feel it doesn't fit the transcendental image of what we've been made to believe it should really be.



Frackin' Hollywood.



Is love serendipitous? Is it fate? Has our Creator (if you believe we have one) chosen a person (or a couple throughout your… Continue

Switchfoot had a song called Love is the Movement - the chorus line read:



Love is the movement

Love is a revolution

This is redemption

We don't have to slow back down



I continue to be inspired by watching some of the people around me sweating blood, all to love others. Now, keep in mind, I live in California - it seems that the things that people fight for here aren't as important to people elsewhere in the country. In my hometown, I don't think people are… Continue