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Randzo
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  • South Africa
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TO FORGIVE FIRST TIME CHEATER?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Pepper Apr 29, 2010. 31 Replies

i would die if...

Started this discussion. Last reply by brandyismagic Apr 25, 2008. 18 Replies

Middle of nowhere... ALONE what would kill you?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Kevin Ross Apr 25, 2008. 16 Replies

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musings of a 23 year old
Status posted by Randzo Apr 19, 2010
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i cannot believe i for part of a statistic of women cheated on...
Status posted by Randzo Feb 25, 2010
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first day of work in 2010
Status posted by Randzo Jan 11, 2010
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Wondering how i will get through this
Status posted by Randzo Oct 15, 2009
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We love comments!

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For all bloggers who love receiving comments on their posts! The idea of this group is to discover each others blogs and leave nice comments on them!
Randzo joined PinkNic's group Sep 21, 2009
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Castus

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please please could somebody tell me what the obsession with her is. Gender tests were done and all that so can we move on please. so the SA Athletics bosses messed up, let him leave so that all can get back to balance.the nerve the man has...See More
Randzo added a discussion to the group Saffa Bloggers Sep 21, 2009
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hungry... (i had lunch a while back though)
Status posted by Randzo Sep 21, 2009
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checking up on everybody
Status posted by Randzo Sep 14, 2009
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Randzo updated their profile Jul 28, 2009
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Randzo and Irene are now friends May 13, 2009
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please share with me and let me know

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Im a 21 (22 in June) year old working girl with a dilema.how do you know that this is it? that you are ready to get married?im not mariied yet but my guys is talking a whole lot about marrage these days and im freaking out cause a) i do think im a bit young.(you all got married quite young. how did you know that you were ready for marrage which i think is a on a whole new hectic level from dating)b) dont think im ready to be a wife(all the added resposibilities that come with that)please help…See More
Randzo added a discussion to the group Married Young May 12, 2009
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a whole lot of help my way please...?

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BACKGROUND:dated a guy a while back. he broke up with me cause of issues in his personal life. a year later we have decided to give it another shot.PRESENT:everything is kinda ok but now i feel like we both are pulling away. on my side i at times dont want to let him in to my world completly for fear that he may leave again leaving a new wave of confussion and chaos. sometimes i feel like i dont want to suffocate him and "us" but im seeing that that only seems to lead to us being distant and…See More
Randzo added a discussion to the group A 20SBs guide to 'Love' May 12, 2009
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Randzo and Kimolisa Mings are now friends May 6, 2009
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A 20SBs guide to 'Love'

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A group for 20SBs to share their trials, tips & truths of finding the 'One'. From single to dating, relationships to love, & all the highs and lows that come with. Get advice from the best out there, the ones with the experience, the 20SBs!See More
Randzo joined the.lifestyle.artist's group Apr 28, 2009
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Randzo and PinkNic are now friends Apr 28, 2009

Profile Information

Where do you live:
South Africa, Johannesburg
Relationship Status:
Single, Looking, Bored with it all
About Me:
I'm am a 22 year old girl who is just discovering the world at large. I love tring new things and love meeting new people. i hate things and people that put me in a bunch and class me under a specific type. I believe i am me and that the people around me should take me for what i am and not what they think i should be. i hate people who think they are better than others. i hate people who are rulled by circumstances and who believe that to get anywhere in life you need to have been born to a certain class of people. i hate people who have nerrow minds and those that limit themselves to what they can do and become just because they think they cannot. i hate being told that i can't and i hate rules that i don't understand. I laugh hard and cry loud and totally am crazy about chocolate cake...

all this in short... i am ME...
Website:
http://notwomenyet.blogspot.com/
Age:
22
How long have you been blogging:
a few months
Fill in the blank: "People who like _________ will love my blog!"
reading up on the ups and downs of a 22 year old who is looking to make a mark for herself in this huge world.
What makes you different from other bloggers?
The fact that i am me...

REALIZATION

I sat in bed one evening and out of no where this huge bullet of truth hit me hard in the heart and for a moment that breathing thing that we do so easily, became a necessity that I could not fill.

Tel me, why is it that we at times fail to see something that is almost all the time right in front of us? For the longest time I walked around believing that I knew it all. Believed like a small child’s believe in Father Christmas that it was all in my control and worked damn hard to make it so…

I sat in bed that evening and I realized that I had been so stupid for so long. Even all the times when I was sure that I had stopped the stupid me, I was even more stupid to think she had left for good.

Tell me, why were we made with a glitch in communication? Communication between the heart and mind I mean. Why is it so hard to get the two to speak the same language and make their damn mind up as to what the hell I should do? The one says this while the other says that… can anybody please translate this and that for me…?

I sat in the very same bed on that very same night and after a long time of lies that I had told myself and lies I had let others tell me, it finally hit me hard in the heart that… HE WILL NEVER LOVE ME.

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One day at a time

Posted on April 24, 2008 at 7:04am 0 Comments

wow its finally happening...



the healing i mean. i feel like i have been to hell and back through my emotions and finaly being able to see some sort of light at the end of the tunnel is just so supper.



i have spent the last few days meeting new people, forming stronger bonds with the people i know alread and letting go of those who just seem to not appriciate me. when i say letting go i mean totaly stopping the caring in a big way and letting them initiate the first step.… Continue
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What does the word betrayal mean to you...?

Posted on April 9, 2008 at 3:57am 0 Comments

for the past two days i have been in an emotional hell and slowly but surely am finally packing my bags to leave that place.



i walk around in a constant sate of near tears and everytime i see an act of betrayal - weather it be on TV or in real life - i feel the tears well up. (i have even stoped wearing eye makeup for fear that i will end up looking like a freak).



tell me... how the hell is it possible for a man to be so... so...



i hate him so much it hurts...… Continue

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At 2:39pm on June 8, 2009, LadyLindsayLadyLindsay said…
Love your blog. I like that your man got down and took off your shoes for you. Thats how it should be, right? :)
At 7:20am on April 29, 2009, the.lifestyle.artistthe.lifestyle.artist said…
awww thanks ;) i wrote that list when i was really aiming to create this ideal guy. but i wanted to make it more like an understanding list. like this is why i want this from you. Cool blog btw. I look forward to reading it! x
At 4:51pm on August 1, 2008, Jenn GeissJenn Geiss said…
Agree that it is most important to know and love thyself. Having someone doesn't define you and all the outward insistance to marry someone drives me crazy. When and IF I meet the right person, then I will. About to turn 30 next week and I think my parents even gave up on me being married (I am only turning 30...not 60). As my father, half-joking/half-serious explains..."You don't need to get married. You don't even need to know the guy's name...just get me a grandchild." It is great to be loved!
At 4:47pm on July 8, 2008, NatashaNatasha said…
Thanks for stopping by my blog! My sister is great but I surely did not think so when I was 14... after awhile I decided that she could either be my friend or just a sister and I chose to make her my friend as well as my sis! Dont worry about urs, it gets better, especially if she has cute clothes you want!
At 5:45pm on June 21, 2008, PPPP said…
How are you girly? Any closer to moving on???
At 11:22am on June 11, 2008, The Soul SistaThe Soul Sista said…
Thanks so much for stopping by my page and leaving a comment about my last post! It seems some adults are so selfish and don't think about the children first. They just want what they want when they want it despite who is affected!
At 2:44pm on April 1, 2008, SASA said…
Thanks for the add!
At 1:21pm on March 27, 2008, JEMiJEMi said…
thank you!

and yes - that trevor noah fellow is a looker :)
At 5:16pm on March 22, 2008, *Coop**Coop* said…
Thanks. If only you were a 25 year old guy who lived in America... :-)
At 4:24am on March 20, 2008, RandzoRandzo said…
To those viewing my page - i would love it if al you guys and your friends joined my PARENTS group. i mean we all have those things that irritate us about them but we love them anyway. So since we are all humans we are all allowed to vent once in a while - its thereputic. so join me...

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