Truth...why do we lie?

I’m on the phone talking to one of my friend. Who’s telling me about his relationships? First of his always from one girl to another so am not surprise. All the girls always turn out to be psycho, insecure, jealous individuals than they brake up. Their so jealous, I can’t….I don’t talk to him when his in what he calls relationship. One girl at one point decided to talk call me after I left him a message to question my intentions with him? I don’t understand why woman always goes after another woman when theirs a problem in their relationship. Go after your man; his suppose to be faithful to you, whenever his in those relationships I stay away so much Drama and no time for it. So I’m talking to him right know and the things his saying I had to blog about it. I mean what’s wrong with him I even asked him? Its more like I told him, the last time we spoke around March he was seeing this girls “she’s amazing…bla…bla…bla…makes me happy…but know it’s a new girl. The other one turn out to be crazy pour coke all over his car while he was at work. Coke in a car is like acid. Know new girl…things are going well. She is everything he always wanted, but she went through his phone while he was at work, he forgot his phone at her house. So I guess she found things that did not please her so that’s the end of that road. It appears that when they started dating she asked how long ago his last relationship was. He lied a year ago. Why in bloody hell say that? Why look someone in the eyes and lie? He tells me because if he told her two weeks ago, she wouldn’t talk to him. You think that’s bad, he denied having a kid! What kind of father denies his flash and blood for a woman? A living soul which God have blessed you with; while others are working so hard to make a life and its not happening for them, any woman that won’t go out with you because you have a kid than she’s not for you and it doesn’t make her shallow. She just knows what she wants and doesn’t want a package. You should be with someone who wants you for who you are and what you have. I was very upset when he told me that. How could you tell me this with pride? How can you? He tells me how his ashamed of it. His just telling me what happened. He wants my advice? Well here is one you shouldn’t deny your kid to get with a woman or man. I asked why he lied when the truth is his last girlfriend was weeks before the new one? Because she wouldn’t have gone out with me!
What is wrong with society? Why assume or tell someone what you believe they want to hear instead of the truth? You cannot assume what your doing is best for them. Or it’s not the right time to tell the truth; who the hacks are you, to decide the right time to tell someone either bad or good news. Your responsibility is to tell the truth. Honesty is great policy for a reason. What you hide in the dark always…ALWAYS comes to the light. Best thing be true to your heart. The truth hurt but it’s so much better than looking like a douche bag. Tell the truth and the person you tell can decide if it’s the right time or not. We assume the best time to tell bad news is when someone is happy this way they take it a little easier! Or tell happy news when one is sad. It’s not up to the story teller to decided, it up to the receiver. I will cover more about truth and honesty at a later time.

Life is great till next time…

Ly’Lla T.