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Helpful Fact: dating when you're attractive is harder than dating when you're not. Yes, you read it right. Have you ever taken the time to think that it's possible for the "pretty people" in this world to have a hard time finding that special someone? It's true, the better looking you are, the harder it is to find your soulmate. Let me tell you why.

First off, everyone wants to date you. It's hard to enjoy a girl's night out or even enjoy a great book in your favorite corner at Barnes & Noble because someone wants to introduce themselves to you. What makes it worse is that you don't know if they're being genuine and want to really get to know you, or do they just want to be seen holding hands with the prettiest girl or hottest guy.

And what's worse than meeting a total creeper? These days making a great first impression isn't hard. Women are emotional and a man with the right moves and words can take advantage of their vulnerability, coming off as prince charming, until that charming prince starts calling at 3am asking what you're up to. The cell phone of an attractive single is constantly ringing with a slew of daters wanting to wine and dine them. More time has to be spent choosing which guy or girl is right for you compared to a less attractive dater that normally only has 1 or 2 numbers to call...if that.

Good looking singles' have to keep a guard up to make sure they aren't being used as just another notch on someone's bed post. Of course someone less attractive enters a potential relationship with their guard totally down because who knows when they'll have another person interested in dating them.

It may seem mean, but this is reality. When you're attractive and single you're constantly bombarded with people wanting to take you out or a man that promises he only wants to be your friend. What's funny is, even when you decide to commit to someone it still doesn't stop people from hitting on you. Men AND women find that people in relationships are not off limit unless they have a ring on their finger; and sometimes that doesn't even stop them from pursuing.

If attractive singles don't have a harder time finding love, why are most clubs filled with pretty people? Depending on where you live, you won't ever walk into a location where socializing takes place, and find a room filled with the less attractive. Why? because they're at home cuddled up with the first person that hit on them.

It's a hard life for attractive singles...don't you think?

Tags: attraction, dating, relationships

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Comment by Hollywood Tattle Tale on March 1, 2010 at 2:58pm: @ Matthew,
you should approach her while she's searching for books...not reading them =)

Comment by Peyton Smythe on February 10, 2010 at 3:06pm: i promise never to talk to an attractive woman while she's reading a book at Barnes & Noble.